- Confidence in your ability: This is a form of feeling confident in your ability, through being competent and successful in what you do. Knowing how to is the key for this type of confidence. Hark work, effort, focus, concentration, doing it whole heartedly (not half heartedly) and patience are usually the elements to success and being confident in your ability. Those who are lazy, not hardworking, scattered mind and neglects their work leads to failure, and failure leads to losing confidence in your ability and in turn low self esteem, regrets, depression and other psychological implication, work hard and be good at what you ment to do.
- Confidence in your way of life (path): Some people are confident because they have faith in their way of life, it could is a spiritual life, religious life etc... and they gain confidence in the path they are walking.
- Confidence in wisdom and clarity: confidence may come in the ability to be aware of the situation and what is doing on, having good judgements and reasoning. Sense of security arise when you are ready and prepare what is to come. Insecurity is when you are confuse what is to come or what is going on. Clarity is like when there is light in the room you know your way around. Clouded mind is like a dark room, you do not know what is going on, you are confuse, insecure and perhaps scare of what is around you, what's going on or what is to come.
- Confidence in self acceptance: Sometimes when you are at peace with yourself, confidence naturally arise. This confidence usually comes when you believe that everyone, including you should be treated with respect and dignity. When you believe that you should accept yourself for who you are (as long as you are not commiting immoral things). Be at peace with yourself...
- Confidence in courage: sometimes you can use your courage to face your fears. And with courage and controlling your fear. confidence naturally grows. With courage, it feels like you are ready to take anything to come, no matter what the outcome or how big the challenge is.
- Confidence in survival necessity: Some people may feel more confident in themselves once they have the stability to survive, whether a house for shelter, food to survival, clothings to keep warm or medicine to heal illness.
- False confidence by acting or emotional manipulation: this is when people may not be competent but only act confident and manipulate or lie to themselves that they are confident. These are usually egotistic or arrogant people who are insecure in honestly seeing their weakness and having to lie or manipulate to themselves in false confidence to give them the boost. Sometimes they may even act confident in order to deceive and manipulate others for their own advantage. Such behaviour is dishonourable and will lead to corruption and eventually lost and confuse as honesty and clarity is not there, their minds and lives beings clouded each time.
Saturday, 24 July 2010
Different types of confidence
I have come to find there are various types of confidence, namely:
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