Handling being abuse postively!

Some people are naturally good natured, they do not tend to cause harm to others. However, as time goes by and they experience being harm and abuse by others verbally, mentally, physically etc... they normally react hurt and defensive. Through the defensive act, it may come in the form of being negative or mean to ward people off. Over time, this would lead to negative mind frame and various psychological complication and perhaps health such as ulcer because of anger, frustration and stress.

However, those who are wise, will stop and examine that reacting negative in order to defend oneself may not be good in the long run. They may find alternative ways of dealing with those people who abused them or dealling with their past trauma. They may realised these good advice:

- Ignore them! Recognize they are corrupted and avoid negative people knowing they will cause trouble if you mingle with them. As an ancient quote, avoid foolish people like mad dogs.

- Do not contend and compete with those who are foolish. If you want to compete and contend with foolish people, if means you are foolish and you need to remove the ego. A wise person doesn't waste their time on pointless argument to satisfy petty ego, as life is too short.

- Be patient and calm, let go and do not get involve with foolish abusive people.

- Learn to forgive.

- Know that people who are abusive are because they are lost and had a bad past. Learn to forgive. In fact, learn to care for them if you have a big heart, but yet be smart enough to keep your distance knowing it would lead to problems with corrupted people.