Saturday, 26 February 2011

Alpha males VS Beta males

I am not exactly sure of the difference between alpha males and beta males. But for now, lets assume alpha males means superior male species in terms of stronger or taller and more attractive physical attributes, stronger dominate assertive mentality and a potential confident leader (which is appealing for most women), where as the beta males are more passive, shy and not a leader type of men (perhaps less appealing to some women).

The question is which is better? Well, I still think I need to draw some clear lines before anwsering this question. We need to consider other factors. another factor to contribute whether they are wholesome or unwholesome, noble men or corrupted men or a mixture.

Whether alpha or beta male, I guess it does not really make a difference if you consider the attributes of their heart.

But generally speaking, I think alpha male may be more corrupted, because to be an alpha male, there must be a level of greed to stand out and to step over other men in order to become more superior. It actually draws the mind into an animalistic state of competition, which corrupts the kind and humble heart. Generally, a better man is not concern of image and reputation, nor is he contentious over worldly affairs. He rather be humble, have humility and let other people go ahead and not show off nor dominate others people for ego satisfaction.

However, their are also beta males who has corrupted intentions like jealousy, hatred, ego issues who wants to step over others but do not have the attributes to do so. Being beta male does not show if you are noble or not.

Now, I am aware that most women are attracted to alpha male, because of their leadship mentality and more stronger and attractive physical attributes. However, the reason why they desire this is because their mind and heart are dwelling into a more animalistic level, where they submit to the stronger species (whether right or wrong) and think of the physical lust attributes.

However, there are virtuous women who do not feel submissive to men's dominate aura, as that is not valuable to them and whereas inner virtue is more appealing to them. In fact, they may find egotistic and dominating attribute disgusting because they understand how egotistic can lead to the potential dark demonic path and find that kindness, peaceful, decent, up right, respectful and humble attributes more appealling. Furthermore, since purer women are less lusty, physical attributes of men do not play a major decision factor, as the heart counts more.

It is understandable that most women mentally prefer to be the idea nice decent girl which is ideal for society, as a lady, however their mind, character, personality and behaviour may speaks another, and falls into a state of manipulation and self denial. It take strength for most women to purify and wise up to some degree to become a proper woman.

Again, you get alot of mixture and types of males and female, so this is only generalising. But all in all, it is the idea how like minded people attracts like minded people. Opposites may attracts in terms of external factors like different hobbies and jobs which because intriguing and new to each other, but in terms of the heart, it is usually like attracts like. A virtuous person will look for virtuous person.

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