Love speaking unconsciously

Being angry and rude won't solve anything positvely,
even though it is natural, you just have to see the bigger pictures.

Sometimes love is a better medicine than preaching (in certain situation)

"90% is unconscious level. With love, the unconscious level can sense it either without conscious realising and respond positively"

Problems with fault finding

sometimes looking at faults blind us from the truth, the whole picture, of all the other good things. It can ruin what is already good. Besides, life is too short to fault find all the time unless necessary.