1) "There is a difference in Jeet Kune Do concept and Bruce's Jeet Kune Do"
2) "Jeet Kune Do is for the streets and MMA is for the cage"
3) "Jeet Kune Do covers the physical, mental and spiritual aspect, where as MMA only covers the physical" (spirituality such as peace, no ego & arrogance, finding yourself
Freestyle or no style means:
- In terms of skills: Be open minded enough to select effective skills from different martial arts and make it your own. It does not mean not learning any style and randomingly train, otherwise you are just doing jibberish (unless it's effective).
- In terms of mind set: A state of mind that freestyle and is adaptable to defeat opponent
5) Jeet Kune Do concept is no style, progressively grow in realistic fighting skill & spirituality.
rlam86 1 second ago
I know what you mean, I've been thinking that for a while and I came up with a summarise sentence:
Saturday, 14 May 2011
Monday, 2 May 2011
Dealling with persistant difficult people
With the wisdom and clarity, knowing that the person is not a good person, knowing that there is darkness and problems like hatred, desire to dominate and bully you, threaten you, not good for you... Then what to do?
Well, the first thing to do is to disconnect from them! Simple as that!
You can do this by either in a nice way or a direct frank way. Nice way means just to ignore them and that's it. A frank and direct way means to make it clear that you don't like their ways and therefore leaving them.
Problems happens when a person is trap in this nice and friendly mode, afraid of offending the person and scare of the consequences of that person hating you or whatever reason. The point is that it is better to be hated for who you are and what you stand for and what you think is right (without causing other people problems) instead of being not hated but standing on what you think is the wrong path and lying to yourself. It is better to tell a bad to leave you alone than to be scare and passively follow and be friend them.
Being too friendly to say no can be a disease/problem. Being too friendly to reject corrupted people is a disease/problem. A wise must know when to draw a line and stop the others from leading one astray. Sometimes one may need to be firm and direct, without losing their pure good intention.
Well, the first thing to do is to disconnect from them! Simple as that!
You can do this by either in a nice way or a direct frank way. Nice way means just to ignore them and that's it. A frank and direct way means to make it clear that you don't like their ways and therefore leaving them.
Problems happens when a person is trap in this nice and friendly mode, afraid of offending the person and scare of the consequences of that person hating you or whatever reason. The point is that it is better to be hated for who you are and what you stand for and what you think is right (without causing other people problems) instead of being not hated but standing on what you think is the wrong path and lying to yourself. It is better to tell a bad to leave you alone than to be scare and passively follow and be friend them.
Being too friendly to say no can be a disease/problem. Being too friendly to reject corrupted people is a disease/problem. A wise must know when to draw a line and stop the others from leading one astray. Sometimes one may need to be firm and direct, without losing their pure good intention.
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